I am back

Hello... I'm back!

Finally, the time has come to make a blogging comeback. I can't believe it has already been four long years since my last blog entry. So much has changed in my life. On a lighter note, I'll make a quick recap of how my life has been in last four years. Don't worry I'll be publishing detailed entries later.

Photo taken a year ago.

Hi blogsphere friends, how are you all doing? I wish you guys are still around and to my new readers welcome to my small space.

Many hugs,

Rupa.

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Dearest baby bear Raegan, 

You’re finally here 《01■10■2020》 Your recent arrival is some of the best news we’ve had in 2020! Before you even entered the world, you were loved, cherished, and wanted. Now that I can hold you in my arms, those feelings have multiplied tenfold. My baby, you were born in one of the most unusual times of my generation – in the midst of a global pandemic. The world and our country is grappling with some major issues right now, which will form the backdrop of your life’s story. 2020 isn’t over yet, and it’s been a year for the history books already. I guarantee that the inharmonious notes of our world will rearrange into a harmonious melody soon. But I just don’t know when that is going to happen. What I do know is that you, my baby, will grow and that you will change. My sincerest wish for you is: ~to love well and to live fully. ~to be kind and humble. -Being strong is great but being humble is the greatest... ~to have loads of passion and determinations. ~to bloom from the heart. Millions may remember 2020 as the year of hardship as the coronavirus pandemic brought a tidal wave of hardship. However, our family will remember this year as the beginning of something new – the new life we’ve found in you. I pray that this global backdrop will frame your life with perspective. You are actually our perfect gift from God. I am so excited to see you grow. Right now you're so innocent and soft. You are our baby girl. You're going to be my best friend. I already know we will share so many wonderful memories and adventures together. I will love and honor you for whatever your passions are in life.

Xoxo Mama

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Why I haven't been blogging^^

Happy Valentine's Day :)

I'm back after a long blog break!  Last year was quite a roller coaster ride for me with ups and downs, heath deteriorating but I am still on my feet and all is well.  God is Kind and loved ones are beautiful…

I've been missing blogging so much but for several reasons, just can't seem to get started back regularly.

I've decided to list those reasons and do what I need to do to get past them and back to blogging, because I miss my blogging friends so much!

Reasons for not blogging regularly:

• extremely slow internet service.
• takes too long to find the "perfect" photos for my posts
• feel like my mundane life is too boring for anyone who really want to read about,
• lastly; guilt because I don't get around to visiting everyone else's blog that visits mine

There is a joy in living. Life's a blessing <3 

So, here's the plan:

1. open only one browser window at a time (when possible) while making my posts
2. forget about perfectionism, it stagnates creativity in too many areas of my life
3. go back to my original purpose for blogging; more of a diary for me that I enjoy sharing with others
4. return blog visits when I can, but leave a reply in my blog's comment section when someone honors me with a comment

I truly think I can get back to blogging if I stick to this plan.

I'm printing it out right now so that I won't forget and slip back into my perfectionism.

 So, I hope to be back with postings of my little life....

Thanks for reading my ramblings.  I hope you'll come back often!

Ps: Thanks a lot la Ata Kinzz, Ata Kinley and Charo Dechen Sangmu <3)… for feeling my absence… 3 of you are my beautiful people that I always count on… Much Love <3

Hello December II

Happy Thursday friends!

Are you weary of the cold?

Are you wishing for spring?

Maybe you are dreaming of a summer's day by the water?

Or would you be happy to just rewind to a

utumn?

(I'm okay with spring and autumn, but seriously, let's keep summer away as long as possible)

Let's do a bit of

Daydreaming hehe...

 I don’t mind carrying my needles and thread with me where ever I go :)

Hello December! Chill is at our doorstep! We need more and more layers. With arrival of chill day, my needles are also flying.  I wish I could figure out how to read and knit at the same time ewww... but then watching TV and knitting can be done  J hmmmm... I'll knit on that and get back with you.

By the way, do you knit?  Crochet?  Enjoy handwork?  Or, are you the person sitting across the room who is hypnotized while watching someone else's hands work needles with yarn in, out and around?

 I think most knitters have a story to tell.   It may be a story of celebration, frustration, loss, healing or centering.  We each have a reason for picking up the needles.   The rhythm of needles moving in and out calms me, slows down my thoughts allowing me to think more clearly and problem solve.  This is my own knitting story. I don’t mind carrying my needles and thread with me where ever I go.

I hope you have had a grand week.  I have been spending a lot of time at school... at least it feels like it.  This is a busy time of the year, as major holiday is on my way, I can erase busyness with desire. It is all good and a lot fun, though I am happy to have the afternoon off today hehe.

Fighting against winter :) by keeping warm :)

You know, during my off hours I was catching up with my favorite blogs and one of the writer had mentioned needing fresh inspiration.  It hit hard on my head.  I've posted a few times of my own struggles with my writing.  Needing "fresh inspiration"  put a face on my own endeavor to put something of substance worth sharing here on my pages.

 Today while searching for something I thought I had posted, I found myself reading back through several months of posts.   As I read, I remembered the joy I found in writing, and hearing back from you.   As I revisited many of your comments I realized how much I learned through your kind and wise words.  Sometimes one must go back to go forward.

Though I continue to seek that "fresh inspiration", I still feel this is a very happy place to be.   And, you are the one who make it so.

I am thanking each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart. Your love, incredibly kind words, and genuine support towards my blaba post made my heart absolutely burst with happiness. Thank you thank you THANK YOU! J

If it is frigid where you are this weekend,

please stay safe and warm.

Sending you wishes for the best week-end ever! 

How to be the best at relationships^^

Hello again...

Hello... It's me.

Hehe Okay^^

I was wondering if after all this time - you'd like to read blabla...

So here we are, It's already November 2016 and I'm not even going to pretend that sitting in front of a blank page and trying to find the right words to type is easy, because I'm so out of touch it's certainly far from it.

I never intended for this blog to become a long lost beauty graveyard, but over the past year, somehow that's the way it seems to have turned outL

No worries,  though today's post isn't something I can say I planned for... but I am impressed using science, human history, surrounding  and my own experience, I have put together a complete guide for the 21st century couple on how to be the best at relationships… I have scribbles plus babla… :P here it goes

#1

Problem in many relationships is that women feel like they have to do all the boring chores and the men just get to go out and ride around.  The truth is that chores are lame and there is rarely anything fun about them.  Help your special lady out by making her daily housework into a fun challenge!   Does she need do cleaning?cooking? laundry?  No! Take turn. ..

This is known as the love around the head^^  :P :P

#2

The only thing women love more than surprises is feeling special.  Show the world that you are proud of your lady by flailing when you're walking with her. The latest study says that just holding your loved one’s hand can calm your brain and shut down fear.  Use pet name to call her, wife, buri or amsuu sounds mundane … She will be reassured that you do not mind calling attention to her and will greatly appreciate the gesture…

Ps: he is carrying chocolates for his sweet heart! :P :P snatch some LOL

#3

Jealousy is an issue that creeps up inside many solid relationships and renders them useless, much like a discarded fish carcass.  Probably the best way to combat jealousy is with compliment.  Every lady loves compliments from her gentleman.  It is a symbol of good intentions, thoughtfulness and love.  And if you use enough glitter, she'll forget she ever felt anything less than complete admiration for you.  Kick off the object of jealousy and welcome compliment.

It is a scientific fact that women love compliment It's in their genes! <3

Ummm he have taken out his heart for her...can you do the same for your love as well?
I can hear you uttering a big 'NO'  :(

#4

I talk a lot! And I feel special when my partner pay attention to my babla.  It’s important to listen to your partner; a priority; if you want the relationship to last. Take a little time to set down your phone, close your laptop screen, put off the TV screen, stop writing lesson plan and listen when she is talking. These simple suggestions will make her feel great and don’t interrupt while they are talking, instead try using non-verbal signal to let your partner know you are listening.

Listen listen and listen

#5

Who woud be able to measure her widest smile?

Maintaining day-to-day communication about your everyday lives will help to cultivate your relationship and become aware of changes your partner might be going through… So, keep ringing her phone^^ She woud smile wide to see your 50 missed call :P

#6

Leave her a paper trail that leads to a surprise/ buy your partner favorite things. As the saying goes, actions speak louder than words. Candles, notes and dairymilk can do, too hehe…

Yaaayyyyyyyyyyy!!

#7

And finally, if you ever get into an argument, imagine that your partner is a puppy with two fore legs and when she drags her abdominal, there is a pool of bloods, and because of the pain she howl so loud...

1st Flaw In Women: Women fight for anything^^

now, your job is to think.'I promise you won't ever be mad again!'

   and steps back from argument  :P

 2nd: Flaw In Women:

Women have strengths that amaze men^^

Thanks for sticking with me, I love you:) and may kenchosum give you the courage to face all the challenges with a smile!

Wish You A Brightest Future With Your Dearest Aum/Ap Khoray LOL  :P :P 

<3

Xoxo